Ah yes you’re right - that’s very different.
There’s no way that i know of to get a list of all users that have blocked you - or get notified when someone blocks you. The way to do it would be like you described: slowly build up a list using /friendships/show (you won’t need to call friendships/show for each tweet if you keep a cache of user ids you’ve processed - just once for every unique user, but even then it’s an awkward one since it’s only 15 calls every 15 minutes)